this is the basis for a serious conversation. we all have our liabilities and a****ts as you have yours and i have mine, however incredibly impossible to hide or define. and i am often asked and i am often wondering if this was the right place. if this was the right time. why did i open it? how did i open it? and this is the basis. i can only know a minute population so why do i hesitate? this is the basis for a serious conversation, no procrastination of one.